My Financial Past

So, I've alluded to this a little in previous posts, but I figure I should give you guys a rundown on what has brought me to where I am now. I have worked for as long as I can remember. My parents were avid sci-fi fans and we went to conventions to sell merchandise in the dealers rooms, and many times I'd be left in charge of the table. Outside of that, I had a paper route and in my off time I would help my mother collect UPCs and coupons.
We were a very thrifty family. My mother had coupons for everything, she would trade with people through the mail even. We had filing cabinets full of UPCs saved in case there was a future rebate. I was taught at an early age the value of a dollar and how to stretch your money, but it never really sunk in.
At around 10 years old, my family moved down to Georgia. Things worked differently here, kids didn't have paper routes. It wasn't until I was 15 that I really started working again. I would go and help out at the local comic book store in exchange for credit I could use to buy comics with. It was good work, I loved the people and had a great time.
A little while later, when I got my own car, I had bills to pay, so I needed real money. After that I worked a few different jobs; I worked at a few fast food restaurants and even did a stint in retail. After high school, it was time for me to move out on my own, and like every other grown-up, I got credit!
That was a bad idea. Eventually, I was maxed out on all my credit cards and overdrafting my checking account all the time. In the end, at age 21, I was near bankruptcy, although somehow I never quite got there. I defaulted on 3 or 4 different credit cards, and eventually had no credit and only lived off what I made each paycheck.
You'd think I would have learned from that, but it wasn't until 2-3 years ago that I finally changed my life. I found Quickenonline, and it saved me. The feature that let you put in recurring bills and estimate your bank account on any given day was all it took for me to stop overdrafting. I would estimate that over the course of 10 years, I paid at least $9,000 in overdraft fees. Not to mention all the other fees on credit cards for being over the limit and only paying minimum payments.
But my story doesn't end there, because eventually, those defaulted credit cards drop off your credit report. And what happens then? You can get more credit cards. And I did, and I wasn't smart the second time either. I never let the cards go over the limit, but I carried balances, for a long time. And I'm sure I've paid my fair share of interest these past few years. But then something changed, I got to claim a dependent on my taxes, and my return was HUGE! And I paid off my credit cards! And now I barely carry any balance from month to month, and pay off most of my cards each month.
This all goes to show that no matter how bad you are financially now, there's always hope. You just have to be willing to make changes. I could have fixed all my problems sooner, if I had only tried. All it took was being able to estimate my bills and see where all my money was going for me to realize how to fix it. If I had just started keeping a paper ledger so many years ago and actually kept on top of it, I would have been fine. But I was lazy, and didn't do it. But now I check my bank accounts every few days, watch my bills and make sure they're all paid on time, and you can too.